Bullying in High School: How Students Can Build Safer Spaces

Megan Chan

行為認知治療(CBT), 辯證行為治療(DBT), 接納與承諾治療(ACT),人本治療心理諮商師

我們都想成為自己的主宰，生活有時如我們所願，但有時卻挑戰重重，令人感到困頓。其實在人生任何階段都可能遇到脆弱的時刻，當這些低潮干擾到日常生活進行，或是導致人生偏離預想目標時，心理諮商可以提供適切的幫助。

在諮商室裡，我們提供安全放心的空間，諮商師能夠協助你與自己的問題共處，與情緒共處，甚至與創傷共處。運用多年來心理學家於臨床實證有效的方法，透過對自身情緒，認知，及行為的覺察，找到改變的契機，進而解決各種困境，重拾力量與希望。

在從事諮商工作以前，Megan於大中華區金融業服務超過十多年，此外她也參與過許多支持本地青少年及兒童身心健康發展的活動，為社會各界提供適切的資源。曾服務於小學，輔導特別教育需求學生，幫助其適應社交生活，處理各種情緒及學習問題。

Megan諮商的範疇包含憂鬱問題，焦慮及壓力調適，家庭與人際關係困難等，分析每個人不同的背景及需求，整合專長治療模式如行為認知治療（Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, CBT), 辯證行為治療（Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, DBT)，及接納與承諾治療 (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, ACT），以人為中心出發，依據不同的問題及目標，擬定個人化的諮商方案。

澳洲蒙納士大學心理諮商碩士

香港專業輔導協會會員

香港輔導及心理學會會員

葛文(Gottman)伴侶療法證書(認證中)

PESI辯證行為治療 DBT證書(認證中)

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Kelly Hutchison: Executive Coach & Leadership Consultant

Core Competencies: High Performance Coaching, Leadership, Reflective Practice, Organization Development

Kelly is an executive coach and leadership consultant with 25+ years of experience helping people to adapt and lead with greater impact in complex international settings. She focuses on personal leadership as both a practice and performance, a perspective gained through her early years performing internationally as a musician. Over her long career in Human Resources and Organization Development, she has worked with talented people at all levels to achieve success on the corporate ‘stage’. She is experienced in multiple industries, including financial services, retail, consumer goods, media/publishing, and technology, and has led divisional, regional, and global teams.

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Qualifications:

Master of Counselling, Monash University (Australia)

Master of Applied Science (Innovation & Org Dynamics/Leadership), RMIT University (Australia)

Bachelor of Arts (Liberal Arts/Music), Florida State University (USA);

Level Two Coach, Institute of Executive Coaching & Leadership (Australia).

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Hong Kong Society of Counselling & Psychology

Australian Counselling Association

Hong Kong Professional Counselling Association

Chris Dudgeon

Executive Coaching & Workshop Presenter

Become a greater leader by living the best version of yourself.

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If you are interested in bringing about a fundamental change in your leadership and performance, get in touch with me, Chris Dudgeon, to schedule an introductory session.

Qualifications

MBA, Henley Business School

CPA (Australia) and Chartered Management Accountant (UK)

Master of Counselling, Monash University and Master of Narrative Therapy, University of Melbourne (ongoing)

Registered Psychotherapist in Hong Kong (HKPCA, PSHK), Australia (ACA, PACFA) and UK (NCS)

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Bullying does not always look obvious. It can hide behind jokes, exclusion, rumours, or online comments that slowly wear someone down. In senior high school, this can seriously affect confidence, focus, and mental health.

If you are being targeted, protecting yourself comes first. Remove yourself from the situation when possible and keep a record of what happened. Write down dates, save messages, and note witnesses. This makes it easier for teachers or guardians to step in and help. Calm, assertive responses such as “Stop. That is not okay,” can also set boundaries without escalating the situation.

Bystanders have power too. If you see someone being bullied, support them safely. You might distract the situation, stay with the person afterwards, or report it to an adult. Even small actions show that bullying is not accepted.

Schools have anti bullying policies and support systems for a reason. Using them is not tattling. It is protecting yourself and others. Mental health organisations agree that safe, respectful environments help students learn and thrive.

Everyone deserves a school where they can focus on learning without fear, humiliation, or threats. Building safer spaces starts with speaking up and supporting one another.

AM Team

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